Archive for marzo 2009

He's Just Not That Into You


Ayer fui al cine con Ire e Ivón y vimos esta comedia romántica.

Las actuaciones no fueron las mejores a pesar del elenco de lujo que tenía; pero lo que caló fuertemente en mí, fueron muchos de sus mensajes.

Más que todo hablaba de como las mujeres desde niñas se nos inculca que si un niño te trata mal, es porque le gustas, y cosas por el estilo, que nos decimos las mujeres unas a las otras para apoyarnos y hacernos creer (mutuamente) que algunas estupideces que los hombres hacen las hacen xq nos aman, y sobretodo que pensamos en los hombres como un "proyecto de hombre", ya que nos imaginamos más con lo que podemos llegar a hacer con ese hombre (menos asi, más asa, mejor bla...) y no lo que realmente es.

También trata la temática de valorarnos como mujeres y tratar de entender el "modus operandi" de los hombres, en especial xq es tan diferente. Y muchas veces nos obsesionamos con una relacion q simplemente nunca va a ser lo que nosotras queremos o necesitamos...

A las chicas: veánla.

A los chicos: vayan con ellas.

Aquí dejo unas cuantas "quotes" que realmente me llegaron!!!

"I had this guy leave me a voicemail at work, so I called him at home, and then he emailed me to my BlackBerry, and so I texted to his cell, and now you just have to go around checking all these different portals just to get rejected by seven different technologies. It's exhausting. "

"I may dissect each little thing and put myself out there so much but at least that means that I still care. Oh! You've think you won because women are expendable to you. You may not get hurt or make an ass of yourself that way but you don't fall in love that way either. You have not won. You're alone. I may do a lot of stupid shit but I'm still a lot closer to love than you are. "

"Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope."